From Fear to Love: Transforming your relationship with money

Author’s Note

‘Why are you poor? Because you’re foolish. And why are you foolish? Because you’re poor.’ And it seems there’s no way out of this cycle. ‘There is a way out!’ you might say, and you’d be right. But what is it?
Education, self-improvement, courses in personal development—all of these make us more educated, evolved individuals, but do they bring financial results? Why is it that spiritually developed individuals are often poor? This is a question that can be debated endlessly. People are as financially well-off as they want to be. The key moment is ‘how much they want to be’.
Since the age of 13, I’ve been interested in questions such as, ‘How was the world created?’ and ‘What is freedom?’ (What kind of freedom or from whom? I myself did not understand.) The question ‘What comes next?’ interested me much more than ‘What is happening now?’ I’ve been working since I was 16, and I changed about 50 jobs (from a bakery to a production company organising international conferences, from KFC to an oil company, from an undocumented worker to the director of my own company) until I found what I liked.
The question ‘Why aren’t spiritually developed people wealthy, and is it true?’ has occupied my mind for a very long time.
The answer to it is ambiguous. Many factors influence people’s desire to be rich or poor. Their spiritual line also matters.
On the one hand, quest for a spiritual path may not prioritise wealth and they may choose other values such as harmony, peace, love, and balance between the inner and outer worlds. They may believe that true well-being depends not on the quantity of material possessions but on spiritual values, and thus, may not pursue money.
On the other hand, spiritually developed individuals may possess skills that aren’t always related to making money. They may prefer work that brings spiritual fulfilment rather than a higher income, choosing growth over financial gain.
However, this doesn’t mean that such individuals cannot be wealthy. On the contrary, they possess qualities that contribute to success in business, their career, investments, etc. For example, they may exhibit greater empathy, sociability, thoughtfulness for details, creativity, and more.
Thus, the connection between spiritual development and material wealth is not direct and depends on the individual values and abilities of each person.
It might seem that all your knowledge, talents, and values should eventually return as material wealth. But here’s what’s interesting: money isn’t tied to moral qualities, mathematical knowledge, or other sciences. The presence of money in your life depends solely on your desire (or lack thereof) to have a relationship with it!
I’ve been planning to write this book for a long time. After realising that not having money requires a lot of effort, I understood that I was trying too hard. I tried my whole life when I could have just loved … loved life, work, people, myself … I realised that the amount of money depends solely on this love!
I offer you my map to wealth. It helped me. It will work out for you too, but it will require reading the book more than once. Moreover, it’s really important to engage in the practical exercises that I’ll provide here. Make some of them your habits, and enjoy the rest.

Wishing you an easy journey!

With love,
Angelique



Foreword

My dear reader, allow me to address you as such. You have decided once and for all to enter the realm of abundance and prosperity. Congratulations! Your time, your mindset, your relationships—all of these are in your hands. And this book will be the key to unlocking the source of your wealth!
All that remains for you to do is to apply the new knowledge in practice. But an important point: don’t leave all the acquired knowledge at the level of theory, apply it. And the sooner, the better.
I know from personal experience what it’s like to have debts, to live in fear of spending even a minimal amount on yourself, to work 20 hours a day, all while carrying a small child without any support.
Of course, one could argue: ‘Who has it easy?’ Everyone has their own pain, their own difficulties. But miraculously, when you talk to people about the good things in your life, they also remember the good things around them, haven’t you noticed? When you complain to people, something negative automatically comes to their mind; conversely, when you talk about your good experiences, they automatically remember their own positive moments.
I stand for wealth for all, for abundance in every home. No one restricts us in this except ourselves. I’m sure you’ve heard and read something similar many times.
In this book, you will learn how to build a relationship with money and how to change these relationships, and understand what kind of relationships they can be. You’ll grasp why we accept debts, how to get out of them, and what to do to rise to a higher level. We will undertake practical actions and acquaint ourselves with the rules that apply in the new era. In this book, I’ve tried to cover all aspects that influence money!
If you’re tired of working as an employee, if you dream of having your own company but hesitate to start your own business, if you’re stuck in a rut when you really want to travel but fear being left without means of subsistence … then let’s get to work! Start applying all the practical exercises described in this book.
And may there be prosperity in your wallet, on your bank cards, and everywhere you would like it to be!
Allow me to express my gratitude to my mentors—and also to my beloved man who has inspired and supported me.
I thank my family and my son!
Thank you, my dear readers, for your interest in this book and your readiness to build your future prosperity right now! I genuinely thank you for becoming abundant and wealthy, thank you for your future that starts right now. You’re reading this book, which means you already have a desire to change your current state. I thank you for the future you are creating today.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
And right away, here’s your first practice.
Setting the Vibration of Wealth
Before sleep, repeat to yourself: ‘Wealth and abundance.’ Keep saying it until you fall asleep.
In the morning, you will emit the vibration of these words. Initiate this tuning process already tonight!



Chapter 1
The Speed of Money

Money is like those individuals who love speed. But to see them, you need to slow down!
The energy that attracts money, on the contrary, is very calm, viscous.
If you move very quickly, you simply won’t be able to discern the money streams passing by you!
Why do I say that money has insane speed? Let’s break it down.
When a person receives and spends money, they enter the realm of economics. If you love money or want to possess and use it, you need to understand that you are participating in the economy of a country (at the very least).
Economics is a primitive art.
Originally, the word economics meant the science or art of managing a household, and this remains its primary meaning to this day. Later, economics began to refer to the joint economic activity of members of society.
Money is the denominator of goods and services.
Have you ever wondered how many times we exchange money–goods–money in a single minute in the world? Imagine the turnover of all these transactions, purchases, and payments, and the speed at which they occur. Something is being paid for, bought, sold every second.
The speed of money is always much faster than yours, and if you can’t train yourself, money will pass you by! Yes, you have to train everything, like muscles. Including money.
You can train yourself at any speed. It all depends on your production. No production, no speed, and no money.
Understand, this is a key factor that ensures speed and money in the economy. Money, in turn, is the result of selling goods and services. Without the production and sale of goods and services, companies cannot earn money, which can lead to financial problems and bankruptcy. Thus, production plays a crucial role in the economy and is necessary to create the speed of money.
The prosperity of any individual is directly proportional to the speed of the flow of their consciousness particles.
When your thoughts and your soul are on the same wavelength as your subconscious, you can control the speed of money and materialise any desire of yours. And in doing so, speed will not be something overwhelming for you!
For those who don’t believe in the soul or the mind, I recommend starting by going to the gym. Work on your abdominal muscles until you get a six-pack and see at what speed you can achieve it.


The key point is as follows: do you confront yourself?

To confront means to face something, especially difficulties that need to be overcome.
To confront means the ability to be present and perceive comfortably, especially in the face of challenge, dislike, and accusation. (encyclopaedic dictionary, reference needed.)
To confront has nothing to do with confrontation.
To confront means to perceive with comfort, without experiencing a desire to avoid or evade. It is the manifestation of calm, non-tense attention.
The better you confront yourself, the more you can achieve. The better you confront money, the more you can have!
It’s commonly known that a person can never overcome challenges and obstacles by running away from them. You can’t escape from money either, as it moves with enormous speed. And why run away when you can go towards it?

Therefore, the first step towards money, wealth, abundance, and your desires is the ability to face them head-on.
It’s important to understand that there are rules of the money flow race, or, more familiarly put, the flow of money. In the past, in the previous matrix, or, to be more precise, before our transition into the Age of Aquarius, income was greater than expenditure. With the emergence of tools such as credit cards and overdrafts on regular accounts, the flows began to change. Very often, the outgoing flow exceeds the incoming flow, leading to debts (but more on that later).
The ability to take loans, on the one hand, provided opportunities. On the other hand, it mixed the flows and created a funnel. The number of tracks for different amounts of money to flow through led to an increase in energy on one side and the attachment of money on the other.
This is no longer just a flow; it’s a specific, dense, distinct, independent, integral element of life.
Attempts are constantly made to simplify and make it less noticeable. Such actions lead to confusion.
I will explain later how confusion relates to money, but for now, let’s examine what’s happening in the new matrix.
You surely know about the elements, right? What about the elements? They are named just like the elements: fire, water, wood, metal, and earth.
We’ve learned to use fire, right?
Gas stoves, ovens, lighters. There was a time when we were afraid of fire.
How did we live before? That’s a philosophical question, but the fact remains: we use fire and don’t even think about it.
The same goes for water, wood, and other elements. Take any of the aforementioned elements, and its application will be self-evident to you.
So, money has become such an element.
The rules of using this element depend on your ability to create!
Yes! You can create as much money as you want! Until you do that, someone else is doing it for you, and that’s why synchronising speeds is almost impossible.
Set yourself up for creation! We differ from each other in the number of desires, ambitions, talents, and those who allow themselves more, have more! Those who can confront more, have more.
It’s worth thinking about this before we move on to discussing money relationships.
And how often do you come up with something? How often can you bring what you come up with to life?
You see, you need to create something so that it can be changed later.
Your salary doesn’t come from some mysterious source. It’s payment for your own production. Production is an action that yields a result.
I’ve always been amazed that people believe in luck as the only way to get rich and become powerful.
Luck is the option people usually resort to in that very state of confusion. When the forces they face seem insurmountable, they can always rely on luck. By luck, we mean events that the person doesn’t control.
If someone lets go of the steering wheel of a car and hopes that, thanks to a fortunate combination of circumstances, the car will stay on the road rather than veering into a ditch, they’re likely to be disappointed. The same thing happens in life. When you let something go with the flow, the likelihood that it will resolve itself is very small.
Perhaps you know how your friends, burdened with debts, grit their teeth and hope to win on the races to solve all their problems at once. Perhaps you know people who have been solving their life problems this way for years. The character Ebenezer Scrooge from Charles Dickens had a whole philosophy of waiting for the time when ‘happiness would smile’. Yes, I admit, luck matters. But if a person has to rely on luck to cope with life, it means they’re not in control anymore. It means they’re in confusion.
Confusion can be defined as any set of factors or circumstances for which a solution cannot be found. A broader definition is: confusion is chaotic movement.
Confusion is when all particles of knowledge are in motion. It will remain so until no factor is defined or understood with complete clarity. Confusion is the main cause of stupidity. To a foolish person, everything except very simple things seems tangled.
Don’t try to accelerate to the speed that’s imposed on you; stop! You need to understand the speed (the amount of money) you can confront. And start with what you’re sure about!
Certainty is the absence of confusion. Intelligence can deal with confusion. What are reliability and stability? The ability to navigate through confusion, navigate around an area of confusion, or bring order to it. Certainty, intelligence, and a sense of reliability and stability, can handle confusion.
And now, let’s look at how luck relates to confusion.
Luck is the hope that some random event will help you in life. Relying on luck means giving up control.
Control can be good or bad, and the difference lies in certainty/uncertainty.
Good control is confident, positive, predictable control. Bad control is uncertain, variable, and unpredictable control. In bad control, there’s never any certainty.
You can control the speed of the money flow if you don’t chase after it. You can also create it and manage it!


Exercise
Rocking the Energy of Money Flows

Start keeping a diary of expenses and income for each day. Record every amount you spend and earn. If you’re already maintaining such records, continue this practice.
Write down the names of your favourite designers or brands. Then take a look at your favourite items and think about who created these things that we buy and use. Find the history of your favourite brand or product, such as your favourite ice cream or wine. Learn more about the creators and the origins of what you value.
Reflect on the question of what affects the speed of income. Write down your assumptions and possible answers. In the next chapter, you’ll be able to compare your thoughts with the answers I’ll provide.

Note: These exercises are aimed at actively engaging with the topic and stimulating reflections on money and money flows.